Cross-Age Peer Mentoring: Why You Need It In Your Classroom
Mentorship can be beneficial in all areas of life, including career mentors, spiritual advisors, and more. Many schools and educators have been implementing special types of mentoring programs in the classroom: cross-age peer mentoring (aka buddy programs!). Younger kids have always looked up to older kids. While adulthood may seem so far away, a student a couple of years older can give a child a standard to aim for in the short term.
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Emily Sanders explains, “we all tend to gravitate towards those who are stronger, more knowledgeable, or already have a following because it symbolizes safety and acceptance. There's a natural assumption that those who are older are more knowledgeable or are ‘cool.’ If the younger child can win the favor of the older child then the younger child can receive praise, safety, access to big kid stuff, etc.”
Cross-age peer mentoring programs match older youth (mentors) with younger students (mentees) for the purpose of guiding and supporting the mentees in many areas of their academic, social, and emotional development. These programs often happen within the classroom, where a younger grade level teacher hosts an older class.
What are the benefits of cross-age peer mentoring?
For mentees, studies have shown the positive outcomes on:- Connectedness to school and peers
- Feelings of competency and self-efficacy
- Grades and academic achievement
- Prosocial behavior and attitudes
- Connectedness in school
- Self-esteem
- Empathy and moral reasoning
- Intrapersonal communication and conflict resolution skills
How to create a peer mentoring program:
Establishing a cross-age mentoring program doesn’t have to be difficult. Each teacher and classroom will have different needs and so each program will vary. Here are three small steps to get started, per Leaderinme.org:- Start simple. Something such as “reading buddies” where an older class reads books or does a craft with a young class can be a great start. This time can aid children in their reading skills while increasing their confidence in their abilities.
- High achievers as mentors. People love to be asked to share their knowledge with others, so the idea of using high achievers as peer mentors is a wonderful idea! We want our children to feel valued and important. Giving younger children access to older children not only helps the younger ones but also provides the older students with leadership opportunities.
- Create a safe space. Creating safe places for mentors and mentees to meet and talk is essential for their comfort as they maneuver their way through these awkward years.